All I can say is I am blessed by my husband. Coach isn’t perfect, and I don’t expect perfect. In fact, I hold little expectations of my husband. Most of you are thinking, “Wow…that isn’t saying much about him and your relationship.” Hear me out though…if I don’t hold expectations of his actions and reactions, then I never have to be disappointed. It isn’t fair for me to set the bar too high. If I expect an extravagant surprise for Mother’s Day in the form of a week long vacation to a tropical paradise, I’m setting myself up for disappointment because that isn’t the reality of our lives. We are teachers, we have children, and many responsibilities. However, had I held this expectation, and Coach not done something so grand, I would have been unhappy with what he did give me. I would have cheated myself and my husband out of the joy that was there. Make sense??
Obviously, I hold expectations in the sense of my husband’s character, but I try very hard not to hold any in terms of actions and reactions. I’ve found that this always allows me to feel the true joy of the moment. With that being said, I will tell you that my hubby has done some pretty awesome things for me lately. Sunday, we will be travelling to New Orleans to see Garth Brooks in concert. I can’t remember a time when I didn’t love Garth Brooks! This is a huge deal for me! I am pumped y’all!! And it doesn’t end there…at the end of the month, on my birthday, we are going to stay at the Myrtles Plantation! It is one of America’s most haunted homes (insert creepy music). I’ve toured the plantation during the day as a kid, and ever since I have wanted to stay there and really get the full experience. Aside from the scare factor, the history of the place is pretty amazing, too. Both of these are bucket list items I can now scratch off. The concert was a bit of surprise to me, but I had not a clue about the stay at the Myrtles Plantation. Coach did good didn’t he!
Yes, my hubby has gifted me with two great experiences lately, but please understand that is not why I am blessed by him. Those are just bonuses! 😉 The real blessing is in his character. He is a wonderful father to our girls; very involved. He is a loving, respectful husband who always thinks of me before himself. He works hard to provide for us, all while being an amazing example to all of our adopted daughters (those are our softball players). He is a good friend to all, with a helping heart. Above all, he is a man of God. I am so thankful that god designed him with me in mind.